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Fred C Lupher's avatar

I have empathy for the young man. He's suffering from mental health issues. From reading the article, he is hypersensitive to having his feelings hurt and lashes out at anyone and everyone he felt offended him. Being told he may not be cut out to be a lawyer should have been taken as constructive guidance, not as an offensive remark. I'm certain if I enrolled in the college of law, it wouldn't be long before I would be told I'm not cut out to be a lawyer. I would be appreciative and would hopefully have the sense to pursue another vocation.

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I understand what you’re saying, but I don’t think telling him he was “not cut out to be a lawyer” was simply constructive guidance. He was capable enough to be admitted to law school, he was there because he had earned his place, and he was paying tuition just like the other students.

I believe there may be a larger campus culture issue at play. If he was experiencing microaggressions or other incidents that made him feel targeted or unsupported, and nobody stepped in to help him navigate those experiences, I can understand how things could eventually reach a breaking point. That, and being told youre not cut out for your dream profession after being admitted and enrolled in law school must have been triggering for this young man. I think it’s important to look at what led him there rather than reducing the situation to him simply being “too sensitive.” Sometimes people need support before they reach a crisis point, and I don’t think he received enough of it.

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